Your identity is the core of your being. It is the backbone of your existence. During years of relationships with people we love and associate with, we usually transfer some parts of our identity to others. We also get some parts of the identity of others.
When you love somebody, you give him/her your heart, but when the love is over, your heart, your loving emotions are not returned to you.
You feel something is missing in you. Well, the missing part is a part of your identity. Until you reclaim your missing heart and your loving emotions, you will never feel the same; you will never be the same whole as you were before.
When you do business with somebody or work with a colleague, you pass some parts of your identity in terms of trust and friendship. When the relations get strained, your identity gets fractured, split and adversely affected.
NOW and when you think of the number of people you had loved, had family and working relationships with, you realise HOW much of yourself you have lost and passed to others and HOW much of others you absorbed in to your identity.
What you have passed to others and what you have absorbed from others creates crisis in your identity.
Until you reclaim and re-own what you have passed to others, and reject what you have absorbed from others, you cannot have your whole identity.
When you see somebody and you feel sick or scared, you absorb some negative energy from that person. Your identity remains split until you get rid of these feelings.
When you do not have your whole identity, you face identity crisis.
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Online Coaching Objectives:
Reduce the gap between your achievements and your talents
Coordinate your identity with your role
Increase your effectiveness in playing your role
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